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it's funny how you learn things about yourself - your likes and dislikes - every single day. here's a list of dislikes:
  1. eager beavers
  2. people who fake an accent
  3. people who talk more than they do
  4. people who claim credit when they've done nothing (oh! old debts)
  5. back-stabbers
  6. gossipers (is there such a word?) that stir up trouble like there ain't enough of that already?!
  7. inconsiderate people
  8. .... more to come, i just know it

is it too much to ask to have decent people around? there's a chinese saying, that even on the same hand the fingers are of different lengths. but is it really impossible to have everyone cross a certain threshold of decency and not stick out like a sore thumb?

i've often wondered why some 40 year olds act the way they do - as if they hate the whole world. i think i'm in danger of being that sort of 40 year old as the list gets longer, and i meet more obnoxious people. argh. (*_*)

Comments

Anonymous said…
Hi Buay,

You mentioned
"there's a chinese saying, that even on the same hand the fingers are of different lengths."
Which Chinese saying is that?

Howie
Anonymous said…
Hi Buay,

You mentioned
"there's a chinese saying, that even on the same hand the fingers are of different lengths."
Which Chinese saying is that?

Howie
Joop said…
got lah - i can't remember the exact words, but there's a saying that even on the same hand, the fingers are of different lengths.
Joop said…
十隻手指各有長短

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